
Everyone knows what it feels like to be judged. I am a parent, so heaven knows I've been judged because everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, knows what "good parenting" is and they wrote the definition.
I am also a
single parent, which comes with its own fun book of stereotypes and harsh assumptions.
I know what it feels like to be judged, and so do you.
This coin has two sides though. I've pointed the finger of judgment more times than I can even remember.
It is easy to pass judgment on someone when you can only see an inch of a story ten miles long. Sometimes things look so black and white. Sometimes you really do know best . . . or do you?
Recently a friend shared a painfully embarrassing moment on Facebook. She could have kept the experience to herself, but she shared her foible with all her Facebook friends because she was reminded of a great truth:
"If you judge people, you have no time to love them." ~ Mother Teresa
My friend's experience has been on my mind ever since I read it in my Facebook feed weeks ago. It was a powerful reminder to me of why it is always important to reserve judgment. With her permission, I am sharing it here:
"My friend and I were standing in the check out line at Macey's (getting case lot deals) at 10:00 P.M. last night. In walks a dad with his two crying kids. I say to my friend, "Those kids should be in bed. It's ten o'clock." Agreeing, my friend said, "Yeah. It's even worse when you're at Wal-Mart and they're hauling their kids around at midnight."